愛自己會變成自私嗎 ? (艾妮塔.穆札尼 實況問答2016-8-17 第一集)/ Self-love & Selfishness (Anita Moorjani Q&A 8-17-2016 Part 1)



艾妮塔.穆札尼  臉書實況問答  2016-8-17

第一集

Anita Moorjani live video on Hay House’s Facebook page 8-17-2016
Part I


Some people would like to know at what point does self-love cross over into being narcissism or selfishness. So what I want to say is that at no point does it cross over as being narcissistic, because narcissism and what we call selfishness actually comes from too little self-love.

有些人想知道愛自己到什麼程度就變成自戀、自私。我的回答是,愛自己永遠不會變成自戀,因為自戀或我們所說的自私,實際上是來自於不夠愛自己。

So here is what I want you to imagine. Imagine that the world needs more love because people are suffering, people are hurting each other. People who are hurt hurt other people. In other worlds,  hurt people hurt people. So people who are hurt are the ones who hurt other people. What they need in order to stop hurting other people is love. So you are going to go out there and share your love with the world.  How can you love others like yourself when you don’t even love yourself ?

我要你們想像一。這個世界需要更多的愛,因為人有苦難,人們彼此傷害。被傷害的人去傷害別人。換句話說,受傷的人去傷害別人。也就是去傷害別人的人,已經受到傷害。他們需要的是愛,才能讓他們停止去傷害別人。所以你們要向這個世界分享你們的愛。但你怎麼能夠愛人如己,如果你們根本不愛自己呢?

So it starts with loving yourself. Just like when you are on an airplane, you are told to put your own seatbelt on first before you help anyone else. So it’s the same way with love. Another way to look at it is that when you fill yourself with love, you fill yourself with joy, and you allow yourself to feel worthy and deserving , that is the energy you take with you when you go out in the world .

所以一切從愛自己開始。就像在飛機上一樣,他們要你先繫好自己的安全帶再幫別人繫上。愛這件事也是一樣。換個角度就是,你先將自己充滿愛,充滿喜悅,讓自己覺得有價值,然後你帶著這份能量到外面的世界去。

When you are empty and devoid of self-love and you don’t feel you are worthy and deserving, the person you take out into the world is somebody with a great big hole that needs to be filled by other people. So which one would you rather be ? So this is why I say there is no such thing as too much self-love, because the more you have, the more it flows out of you and the more that other people are the recipients of this love.

當你在虛空不愛自己的狀態下,你覺得自己微不足道,這樣的你呈現給世界的是一個心中有個大洞需要別人來填補的人。所以你希望做那一種人呢? 這是為什麼我說給自己的愛永遠不會太多,因為你擁有的愛越多,你會有更多滿溢的愛送給別人。

* Judy H 譯 * 


來源: Hay House 臉書網頁
https://www.facebook.com/hayhouse/videos/10154464744083259/ 

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2006年艾妮塔在與癌症纏鬥四年後陷入臨終昏迷。在醫生努力搶救之際,她進入了瀕死體驗,在鬼門關前她明白了生命的真相: 天堂不是一個地方,而是一個境界。當她醒來恢復意識後,她奇蹟似地復原,並在幾星期內完全康復 ! 從此她跟隨內心的呼召和全世界分享她驚人的故事和上天的啟示。這個最重要的啟示是: 「愛你自己如同你生命之所繫」,而這的確是事實。她寫了兩本書:「死過一次才學會愛」和「死過一次才學會愛自己: 原來,此生即是天堂」,並仍在持續創作中。讀者可以從她這段演講錄影了解她的背景、經歷和啟示


In 2006, Anita fell into a coma as her 4-year struggle with cancer was coming to an end. While doctors rushed to attend to her frail body, she entered into a near-death experience (NDE) where she discovered one of life’s greatest truths: Heaven is not a destination; it’s a state of being. When she regained consciousness, her cancer miraculously healed and she was free of disease within weeks! Since then, she’s heeded the call to share this powerful story—and divine lesson—with the world. The one most important lesson she learned from her unique experience is: “Love yourself like your life depends on it” and it does. She is the author of two books : “Dying To Be Me” and “What If This Is Heaven - How Our Cultural Myths Prevent Us from Experiencing Heaven on Earth” and is working on her third one. You can watch this video to learn more about her, her NDE and the lessons she shares. 

Anita's website, Facebook page and radio show:
http://www. anitamoorjani.com
http://www.facebook.com/Anita.Moorjani
http://www.hayhouseradio.com/#!/host/anita-moorjani

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